Monday, September 10, 2012

Elias: Month 14

Elias:

My poor 2nd child. I've totally slacked on writing you letters. Mommy is sorry. It isn't that I don't want to write them or that you aren't doing anything letter worthy but rather life just seems so much busier than it did with just Colin. But I thought this month even if I can't write a long witty letter, I at least want to document what you are up to. Occasionally I look back on what Colin was doing at your age and should we decided to have another baby I'd love to be able to reference what you were doing as well.  Annnnnnnd ... 2nd babies deserve a little specialness too, right? :) 
 
You, m'dear are why life is so much busier. I firmly believe it has very little to do with the fact that I now have 2 kids instead of 1 and mostly to do with your personality and abilities. You are ALWAYS on the go. You've been walking since you were 9 months (ok 9 months and 2 days) and I think that puts you so far ahead of the norm. You've been walking and climbing for what feels like forever thus making you more adventurous. Or maybe it's your personality :) Regardless, Elias, you are a wild one. You are quick. You are fearless. You are sneaky and loud and a climber. You literally climb on everything. We've removed every climbable thing in the house that isn't necessary but that doesn't stop you. Most of the day you can be found standing or jumping on the couch and smiling as I repeatedly say "Elias sit on your bottom." If you aren't on the couch, you can be found on the stairs, up the stairs in the bathroom with your hand in the toilet, planking on your activity table, stacking toys up to get you higher. There's nothing you won't try to climb. The other day you climbed on the kitchen chair and stood on the kitchen table! Your tenacity outweighs your short little legs. And if I'm being really honest here, I strongly dislike this stage we've seem to be in for the past 4-5 months but I do pray you never lose your strong sense of determination. 

Aside from the differences in you and Colin's mobility at this age, the other big difference is you hardly speak words. I've heard that it's typical; kids who walk earlier speak later and vice versa - it's just how the brain works as it focuses harder on one aspect. Unlike Colin who at Month 14 was saying more than a dozen words, you have just a small handful: Dada, All Done, and Duck are your clearest. You have a distinct sound for Colin. You can say Mama but rarely ever do. And I think that's it. You sign for "Please" and shake your head "No" very emphatically. You know the animal sounds for: Pig, Puppy Dog, Cat, Elephant, Monkey, and always say "duck duck" for Duck. And while you don't say much, your understanding of what is said to you astonishes me. Maybe it's normal for your age but you just seem so little to follow directions. You are good about getting your shoes (and everyone elses) and putting them by the door when you are done. Or putting your cup on the table when I ask you to pick it up off the floor. We are still working on following directions on not throwing food, jumping/running on the couch and hitting Colin :) 


Elias as trying as you can be at times (have we mentioned you still don't consistently sleep through the night! but we do really appreciate that you are                      doing it several times a week) you are the sweetest thing ever. You bring so much joy and laughter to our lives. Your go-big-or-go-home personality fills the house. As much as you love to beat-up Colin, you are quick to lovingly rub his head, nuzzle your face against his or shower him with your sweet but often sloppy kisses. As crazy and loud and wild as you can be you are equally sweet and gentle and oh so adorable. There's nothing I love more than being your {and Colin's} Mommy. I love you more than words can say. 

Love Always,
Mommy

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Year 32

I'm a goal setting, list making kinda girl. I love nothing more than creating lists; the whole process of it: thinking of ideas, the satisfaction of completing task, the accountability of "the list."

I decided in light of my recent 32nd (*Gasp* 32?!?!) birthday, I'd make a list of 32 things I'd like to complete this year. 32 things that will hopefully better me as a person, wife, mother, Child of God, citizen. 

I'm intentionally leaving a few open so I can add ideas as the year progresses depending on my passions, spirit-callings, or whatever crazy idea pops in my head. 

  1. Lose {at least} 32 pounds
  2. Sell this house
  3. Read 1 Book per month (Sept, Oct, Nov, Dec, Jan, Feb, Mar, Apr, May, Jun, Jul, Aug)
  4. Do 1 Service Act per month  (Sept, Oct, Nov, Dec, Jan, Feb, Mar, Apr, May, Jun, Jul, Aug)
  5. Do 1 Random Act of Kindness per month  (Sept, Oct, Nov, Dec, Jan, Feb, Mar, Apr, May, Jun, Jul, Aug)
  6. Have 1 Family Planned Activity per month  (Sept-Zoo, Oct-Fall Fun, Nov-Children's Museum, Dec-FMG for Santa and Trains, Jan-Florida, Feb, Mar, Apr, May, Jun, Jul, Aug)
  7. Donate 32 articles of clothes
  8. Fund a well 
  9. Have Family Pictures taken
  10. Go out of town with the girls in the family
  11. Do {at least} 32 new pins
  12. Join a Life Group at church
  13. Mail at least 1 Card per month
  14. Create a 1 Month Menu Planner - and see if it works
  15. Ride the train to Chicago with the boys
  16. Create an art project or treat with the boys for all major holidays
  17. Go on a date with Mike once {at least} once a quarter
  18. Go on a date with just Colin
  19. Go on a date with just Elias
  20. Make Christmas Cookie Platter for Mike's work
  21. Create a service project {preferably ongoing} at work
  22. Do my own version of 7 
  23. Allow Colin to have a sleep over with a friend
  24. Increase ING account by $X
  25. Pay for Disney in 'cash'
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Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Weekly Goals

Last Week's Goals:

  • Menu Planner: Bday Celebration, Pizza, Leftovers, Burgers, Grilled BBQ Chicken, Zesty Italian Chicken, and ? 
  • Household: Make at least 1 trip to the storage unit,  
  • Personal: Go to bed before 11pm, Hair Appt - Cancelled yet again :(, 
  • Family: Go to the zoo, Go to the FMG, Father-Son Picnic at ACLC  
  • Misc: Product Test, Food Survey
This Week's Goals:
  • Menu Planner: Sunday Dinner at Mom and Dads, Taco Salad, Restaurant,  Tacos, Subs, Beef Stew, and Beef and Rice Burritos
  • Household: Make at least 1 trip to the storage unit, Go through boys' closets/dressers, 
  • Personal: Hair Appt, Go to bed before 11pm twice, 
  • Family: 
  • Misc: Return Product Test
Thursday, August 30, 2012

Summer Fan Jar Update

Summer is unfortunately quickly coming to an end. I thought I should see where we are at on our Summer Fun Jar list and add some pictures. I've been horrible with taking my camera places but have captured quite a few of these items with my iPhone, so at least some are documented. 

Summer Fun Jar Update
Go to a Farmer's Market
Go to the Library
 Have a Water Balloon Fight
Make Homemade Ice Cream
Go Mini-Golfing with Colin
Go to the Zoo
Go to the Beach
Play at the Splash Pad  
Bubbles!
  Pick Blueberries
Find a New Park to Play at
Picnic at the Airport
Movie Night with Colin at Collin's Park due to bad weather and work we couldn't make this work :(
Picnic in the Backyard
  Play in the Sprinkler
Go Fishing at the Kroc Center
Go to a Whitecaps Game
Monday, August 27, 2012

Weekly Goals

Last Week's Goals:

  • Menu Planner: Chicago, South Haven, Make Your Own, Open House at School, White Caps game, I work 2nd shift (uggg!) so whatever Mike makes for the boys, Family Reunion
  • Household: Make at least 2 trips to the Storage Unit with one being the desk, Catch up on laundry
  • Personal: Create list of goals, 
  • Family: Bday Celebration, Open House at school, White Caps game, Family Picnic
  • Misc: Food Survey
This Week's Goals:
  • Menu Planner: Bday Celebration, Pizza, Leftovers, Burgers, Grilled BBQ Chicken, Zesty Italian Chicken, and ? 
  • Household: Make at least 1 trip to the storage unit, 
  • Personal: Go to bed before 11pm, Hair Appt, 
  • Family: Go to the zoo, Go to the FMG, Father-Son Picnic at ACLC 
  • Misc: Product Test, Food Survey